The weather in the Twin Cities has rocked lately. Very fall weather. Fall invigorates me, and the kids are all hyped up with Cooper going to kindergarten and all…so we had a day where we dressed up, had a special treat or two and took some pictures. Yep, my kids are CUTE!
Woah, getting personal…
I normally don’t post very personal things on this blog. The blog is meant to inspire, inform, and educate as well as show off some pretty pictures and amazing ideas from our fantastic brides. But this has been a tough month. A lot of shooting and editing…too much editing, back to school, a contractor running off with our money, some doctor stuff with myself, the general craziness of having three little ones AND a business AND a house that is in disrepair, all the while trying to eat healthy (well, healthier), exercise, keep clients informed, get new clients, stay current with vendors I love…yeah, just a bit busy. And I feel like I’m losing now…at the end of wedding season with a CRAZY November coming up…EEEK!
So I wanted to drop a note telling all of you readers (all 6 of you) that I appreciate the support, the kind words, the encouragement and I promise I won’t be crazy forever. And I doubly promise that I will always be mentally there and creatively on top of things when I photograph =) The plus side? We have been promised a long fall and a mild winter, and even in this recession, Studio Laguna has been blessed with amazing brides and have been working with awesome vendors. We are happy and healthy and making sure to enjoy life and not let the craziness rule our lives (for the most part).
I came across this Margaret Cho quote and just had to share. I think this is a great quote for people who are overwhelmed to step back and stop getting caught up in the craziness for a minute.
“And I have a lot of self-esteem, which is amazing, because I’m probably somebody who wouldn’t necessarily have a lot of self esteem as I am considered a minority and if you are a woman, if you are a person of color, if you are gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, if you are a person of size, if you are person of intelligence, if you are a person of integrity, then you are considered a minority in this world. And it’s going to be really hard to find messages of self-love and support anywhere. Especially women’s and gay men’s culture. It’s all about how you have to look a certain way, or else you’re worthless. You know, when you look in the mirror and think, ‘Ugh, I’m so ugly, I’m so fat, I’m so old.’ Don’t you know that’s not your authentic self? But that is billions upon billions of dollars of advertising. Magazines, movies, billboards, all geared to make you feel shitty about yourself, so that you will take your hard earned money and spend it at the mall on some turn-around crème that doesn’t turn around shit. If you don’t have self-esteem, you will hesitate before you do anything in your life. You will hesitate to go for the job you want to go for. You will hesitate to ask for a raise. You will hesitate to call yourself an American. You will hesitate to report a rape. You will hesitate to defend yourself when you are discriminated against because of your race, your sexuality, your size, your gender. You will hesitate to vote; you will hesitate to dream. For us to have self-esteem is truly an act of revolution, and our revolution is long overdue.”
Warrior Dash 2011
This Sunday, John dashed like a warrior and enjoyed some R&R this summer. Yes, this is R&R for my husband ; ) Here is his account of the day!
“Races with obstacles attract both the occasional runner and serious runner alike. Having experienced two in the past (the 5.7 mile Living History Farms Race in Iowa and the 10k Marine Corps Mud Run in California), I was immediately drawn to the Warrior Dash.
Upon arriving at Afton Alps, the grounds proved to have made a spectacular transformation that was a site to behold. It was everything the pictures portrayed, except for the occasional essence of sweat, beer, and several varietals of mud, muck, and mire wafting through the air.
The Warrior Dash is unusual because it is not just one race, but waves of races. One starts every half hour so there is a revolving door of new people to watch and chat with. Before it was my time to race, I donned my pelts and gauntlets to join the many costumed runners. Running the race was much hillier than expected. I knew there’d be hills but going up and down and up and down was brutal. Thankfully, there were many obstacles to break up the running….for example, hurricane water spray, a huge cargo net, 12’ vertical wall, a car junkyard, a fast slip & slide, fire to jump over, and a very muddy low-crawl under barbed wire.
After I ran the 3.02 mile race, I rinsed off and came back with camera in tow to take the photos you see here. That also gave me a chance to down a delicious turkey drumstick and a beer while watching other warriors get muddy.”
Here are a few of his images, enjoy!
Surprise Birthday Party
Yesterday was such a fun day for our family…we surprised my mom with a 60th birthday party!
I can’t remember when my mom has had a birthday party, let alone a surprise one, so it was pretty cool. Stephanie came up with the idea about two months ago and we put our plans in action. My two sisters stole mom’s planner and found addresses through that and facebook. Sarah, from A Milestone Paper Company, designed gorgeous invites for us that incorporated my mom’s love of thistles as well as a 30’s look because the party was at the W Foshay.
We took over a corner of The Living Room Bar, and decorated the tables with gorgeous arrangements from La Petite Fleur…which had thistles as well as a French Provincial look, which is my mom’s favorite part of France. Most of the guests had not been to the Foshay for years, so it was fun for them to rediscover the venue. My mom arrived, thinking she was meeting my family for dinner at Manny’s, and walked right up to us. Then she recognized a friend, and then another friend, and thought, “funny, we’re having dinner at the same place”! Then we all yelled “SURPRISE!” and she saw how many people were there for her. It was awesome. She couldn’t stop smiling and we had such a fun time. I got a text the next day saying she couldn’t sleep all night, she kept reliving the party.
Here are a few images!
Querataro, Mexico
I’m back! Sorry for the lack of blogging, but I was on a trip to Mexico for a few days (poor baby, right?). I am so excited to share my experience!
I feel that it is very important for a professional photographer to continue their education. If you shoot the same things over and over, you tend to get into a rut and our clients deserve fresh eyes. Also, in photography especially, there is always something new to learn. So I used a large portion of my education budget this year to go to Mexico and photograph a wedding with the amazing Fer Juaristi. And if I’m going to Mexico in March, why not go a couple days ahead of time to enjoy the weather?
The town I stayed in is called Queretaro, a beautiful historic town that is a tourist destination for Mexicans because it is where Mexican Independence was founded. I was looking for information on Queretaro when I stumbled across a blog of foodie and travel writer, Jim. Being as type A as I am, I wanted to figure out where I was going and what I was doing ahead of time not only so I didn’t waste time wandering, but so my family would know where I was at all times in case something went wrong. Jim’s blog was full of helpful information and he raved about a little B&B called Home. Not only is it owned by a Canadian (so I didn’t have a language barrier) but she is also a trained Chef and knows the town well. So it seemed like the perfect match, AND her prices can’t be beat!
So after planning things out, I headed to Queretaro. First was a layover in Houston, which was HUMID, even late at night. With the very noisy birds and tropic plants, I felt like I was in Jurassic Park! Then on to Mexico. John and I had been in Mexico City and some surrounding towns about ten years ago in an art immersion trip with our college, so I was excited to get to see more of the country. As we were landing, I saw Bernal, the second largest monolith in the world, it was so beautiful! We then landed in Queretaro airport which is oh so tiny but crisp, cool and clean. The weather was a perfect 70 degrees and the smells of citrus trees was amazing.
The taxi to town, which took about 45 minutes was very inexpensive and reliable. Even though I speak very little Spanish, the driver spoke a little English, so we communicated just fine. It also helped that I had the address to the B&B written down to show him. I was so impressed with the quality of the freeways, which were 10 times better than Minnesota’s! It was a pleasant drive.
The outskirts of Queretaro was very raw. Houses made of cinderblocks and covered in graffitti. Random Coca Cola signs were EVERYWHERE, as were spray painted cell phone numbers and derelict walls, standing by themselves in the middle of fields…and then all of a sudden a lush waterpark. It was quite the study of contrasts.
As you drive farther into town, the houses become bright white stucco and clean. Since evertyhing is concrete, there is little adornment to the houses and one type of architecture. There is very little glass, and even the high rises are mostly concrete. Though almost everything is square, once and a while I’d see a house with Mediterranean style domes and a pop of color. Driving into Centro Historico was suddenly a saturation of color. The Jacaranda trees were in full bloom, so there were puffs of purple between the houses, and everything smelled like orange blossoms.
Staying at Home allowed me to be in Centro Histrico, walking through the cobblestoned streets and near 40 churches and many town squares. Queretaro is also full of fountains supplied by a huge aqueduct, which was amazing to see. It is interesting walking through town because the sidewalks are fairly narrow and all the houses are surrounded by tall walls, so you have a claustrophobic feeling walking around. Since it is a UNESCO heritage city, the historic part is very well protected. If you buy a home, you have to restore it unless it falls down and decays, so some entrepreneurs have bought run down homes and are literally letting them collapse so they can rebuild what they want. As you’re walking down one of the streets, it wasn’t unsual to see a tree growing through a concrete wall, or to look in a window and see room apon room of collapse ceilings and piles of trash. But most of the homes were well kept and had lovely antique doors, I think half of my images are of doors!
I quickly figured out where the internet cafe was, and after only a day of walking around, could get back to the B&B easily. Shelley, the owner, was friendly and easy to talk to. She was a food stylist for movies in Toronto, so when she found out I love food photography and adore movies, we had a lot to talk about. I also loved being in a country other than America and hearing their views of the US. I became friends with a Britt as well, so we had some fun back and forths talking about political and social topics (and hollywood gossip, of course!).
Queretaro is one of the safest towns in the country of Mexico. I was able to walk around freely by myself with my camera out and was never harrassed (except by a dirty old man, but that is another story!). People were very polite and patient with me and were eager to communicate, even though I didn’t speak the language. I was very worried I would come across as a brash American tourist, but everyone was very nice. At the market, I was photographing food. A vendor came up to me with large hand gestures asking if I was American. When I said yes he grabbed by wrist very earnestly and kept saying “listen! listen!”, and it was obvious he really wanted to tell me something. When I made eye contact he said in slow, halting English, “French is language of love. Italian is language of music. American and China is language of business. Espaniol is language of God.” It was so sweet! He said it all with a big smile, and went on to speak very quickly, but I heard him say Obama and Clinton speak Spanish and that the USA will lose $10 billion to China. I think he was very eager to show me what he knew about America, and I really enjoyed the interaction, even though I only understood a 10th of what he said =)
And that was the interesting thing, hearing the Mexican side of American issues. For instance, the country is so upset that Mexico isn’t safe at the border. Their economy is really hurting and tourism has been heavily affected. The view I heard over and over again was that Americans are buying the drugs, and Americans supply the guns to the Mexicans, so why are the Amercians so surprised that there are now drug wars? The people are devistated at what the border cities have become on both sides. And many asked me why we allow so many guns in our country with genuine curiosity.
There are a few things I learned about the Mexican culture as well…mostly at how laid back they are as a people.
*Buses arrive every 15 minutes, maybe. Or you could be waiting for a hour and never see the bus you need.
*Sure you can cross the street as long as you’re ok with stepping in front of a car, hoping it will stop. Because there are no crosswalks and rarely are there streetlights to stop the traffic.
*The restaurant SAYS it will open and 1pm, but it probably still won’t be open by 1:30.
*You can turn right in ANY lane of traffic you’re in, without signalling, and expect other cars to stop.
*Apparently, you can also drive without regards to lanes, just swerve around the people, carts and other cars.
*If you want to know where something is, no one tells you exactly where it is, they just point in a general direction, even those that can speak English.
*If you are supposed to leave with a group to go to dinner at 6, you’ll probably leave around 6:45.
*Daylight savings time MIGHT be on March 31st, but no one knows for sure. They just start watching the news every morning around this time of year to find out what time it is.
So my type A personality was really put to the test. I REALLY had to trust people and just let go of everything. The concept of time and what matters is so different and it was hard to let go and really just wander. It seems like Mexicans are used to waiting silently and patiently. And if things don’t happen the way they’re supposed to, they just shrug it off and go and do something else. So though I tried to embrace this lifestyle, I was pretty happy to get back to a little more structure…plus I missed my husband and babies something awful!
Here are a few images from my first day adventuring around Queretaro, I’ll post images from San Miguel de Allende tomorrow!